Don’t be afraid, speak your truth.

They always say there are 3 sides to a story. Your side, their side, and the truth. Today I am going to tell my story. A story about why I was absent from my social media, blog, and podcast for almost a year.

****trigger warning***

I will be talking about sexual assault, sexual molestation, child neglect, and narcissistic abuse in this blog. If you feel you can not handle it, leave at any point. I do ask that you share this blog to bring awareness to the situations at hand and how silence can lead to the death of others. That if you have or are going through something you speak up and notify the necessary authorities. For even if they don’t do anything there will be a record, for predators will act again because that is what they do.

*************

Long story short on why me and my wife walked away from the poly lifestyle. We saw an increase in ego/ pride driven people claiming to be poly. In Washington state we just beat a case where we dated a military couple. The wife is a covert narcissist and acts all sweet in the eyes of people around her and later we foundout she was recruiting people for her predator of a husband. The wife raped me April 23rd on her period. The husband on a seperate date tried to force himself on my wife multiple times after being told “NO” physically and verbally by her. Then commenced to try to emotionally manipulate her into having his way. We foundout that he molested my wife’s mother on 2 seperate occasions later after we called them out for their lies, and predatory ways.

We told the base and that is when the lies and smear campaign began to try and discredit us so that if we spoke about it nobody would believe us. The pathological liars that they are believed their lies enough that they decided to try and put a restraining order on me. That’s when we foundout they tried to blackmail me via hacking my social media which the judge pointed out. They have been stalking us and their other victims came out and spoke about what they did to them. The case is public and the verdict got overturned. The judge told them to grow up and leave me and my family alone which is when they had a narcissistic tantrum. They had got someone to lie on me and my family and state i had mental issues that i didn’t have which made me open my medical history to prove they were lieing.

Their stories changed multiple times in court and the case got thrown out(my attorney and the judge knew we have been trying to move out the state for a few months and this case was keeping us there). These people are still stalking us and harrasing us via other people and creating alternate accounts to harrass us. I will give a more detailed description in the coming weeks so that I can start posting other people’s “speak your truth” on the podcast. Stay tuned I have many episodes already on standby. My wife will be with me because it is an emotional triggering story.

It took me a long time to even write this due to the constant harassment from these people and the army swept it under the rug because they lied saying I was mentally ill and claimed I had a bunch of mental issues. To where in court I foundout why the military case ended and I had to open my medical history to prove that I was not diagnosed with anything they claimed I had from them stating they sat in on one of my mental health sessions. These people have preyed on other families and due to their nature they will not stop. I only speak on things I know but there are also other speculations but there is no proof of it so I will not say it. Be careful who you keep around you and when someone shows you who they are. Believe them!