boundaries

Damn, I guess I had a habit that was seen as narcissistic. When a person came to me with an issue, I wanted to free them of that issue, so I would take on that issue to solve it. I saw it as trying to make the life of someone I care for easier…but to them it was me taking their pain and making it about me. Glad one of my boundaries is ” don’t stress over things that don’t concern me”. I must say toxic people who only complain helped make my life easier.